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Both / And

Beyond the Myth of Polarity

Sarah McCroskey ©2012

Polarity is not a structure inherent to our realm.  Either/or and the judgment we add is what has created polarity and we all have abundant evidence about how well that is working.

Every dimensional reality has certain attributes. One attribute of 3rd dimensional reality is that it is a realm of duality, which is NOT the same as polarity.




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Duality as a structure of 3rd dimensional reality has to do with the nature of creation within this level of consciousness.  When creation occurs in the 3D realm, it occurs as pairs of opposites – masculine/feminine, outer/inner, birth/death and in physics, wave/particle.  These opposites, however, are complementary – that is, they are mutually occurring and as two parts, they compose the whole. Their exchange occurs in cycles and their evolutionary spiraling.


Within duality (when free of interference or the energy of judgment) these opposites dance dynamically.  Paradox, which tends to confound the linear mind, is in fact, a reflection of the speed of interchange, the yin/yang dynamism inherent in duality.  For duality itself is always pointing to, compellingly insinuating, the unity or wholeness from which it is derived.

Beyond 3rd dimensional reality, in the 4th and higher frequency dimensions, the true nature of creation – as non-dual – is an easy stream of existence.  Creation occurs free of simultaneous opposite creation.  Can you feel already how much easier that is?  Your creative intent simply sails out into the ethers providing a resonant vibration to attract other like frequencies.  As it is within any and all realms, what you put out is what you get back – but unencumbered.  This is both the good news and the bad news, for in 4th and higher frequency dimensions you’ll want to be REALLY conscious of your moment-by-moment creations – it’s the zone of instant karma.  What you put out is what you get back – immediately.  This is the Law of Attraction that Esther Hicks/Abraham speak about.

Are you ready for that?

This is where being awake now – in this very moment – moves from a nice idea to exceedingly practical.  If what you put out (i.e. think, feel, promote or react to) is what you get back – without delay – well, it’s best to be an awake creator being, rather than unconscious, semi-conscious or fast asleep.

Polarity (and its grim affect as it out-pictures into our world) is what occurs when we reside in 3rd dimensional reality – the land of creation as dualities – and then judge the opposites as being oppositional.  Diametrially opposed rather than complementary parts of a whole.  We add the judgment.  It is not there otherwise.

Nature is filled with examples of duality that exist just fine, thank you, side-by-side.  Nature does not judge the timing or occurrence of birth and death, but we do.  Nature doesn’t judge as right or wrong the shark that eats the seal (or mistakenly the human), but we do.  Nature lives true to the credo – what is…IS.  Humans are the only species that adds, “That’s wrong” or “It shouldn’t be.”

And here’s the rub.  As creators, creating in 3D, when we create “It shouldn’t be” we simultaneously create “It should be”.  Remember, in 3D all creation occurs as pairs of opposites.  So when we create through our judgment, “that’s wrong” we generate “that’s right” at the same time!  While we may be self-righteously SURE that it’s the OTHER GUY who is opposing us and making our life difficult, the truth is we are creating opposition to our own ideas each and every time we create from polarity.

This provides a whole new perspective on politics and war.  No wonder it’s hard to get anything done via blaming and arguing.  Can you feel the physical, emotional and psychic exhaustion inherent in creation from polarity?

But how do we get free?

It’s a high price….

We have to practice being neutral and non-reactive.  From a place of neutrality and non-reactivity you are actually allowing what IS, without your opinion, judgment or resistance.  No more hierarchy – good, better, best.  No more right/wrong, good/bad, should be/shouldn’t be.  No more either/or.  Both/and is the key. 

Harmonizing, finding a way to sing along with…at perhaps an elevated octave.  This (and dropping the ball and chain of our linear time construct – a whole other article) is our ticket out of the 3D realm. For in 3D, when we weigh in with our judgment, reaction or resistance we add mass to the other side of the argument – we fuel the opposition rather than just allowing it to be.

Does this mean we surrender our values or convictions?  No!  Values and convictions stand on their own – as heart-based principles to live by.  From a place of neutrality, living true to your heart, you simply generate that – and voila, seemingly by magic, you are propelled into the 4th and higher frequency realms.  But you gotta keep it up.  Like in Shoots and Ladders, the misstep of being right and adding judgment drops you right back into 3D – remember, where it’s hard to create what you want without creating hurdles, too.

Hmmm, burden and attachment to who’s right and who’s wrong or harmony and creative free sailing? We’re each making that choice…now…now…now….

Our price of admission is our righteousness, indignation and reactivity.  The choice is between a world that reflects the harmony of Earth and her natural communities or what us humans have cooked up – fear and separation, either/or and potentially our species’ end game.

Personally, I’ve always liked harmonizing.  You want to take the melody? 

By definition (Encarta):


Polarity – extreme difference, a situation in which two people or groups have qualities, ideas, or principles that are diametrically opposed to each other


Duality – 1. something consisting of two parts a situation or nature that has two states or parts that are complementary   2. theory of matter in microphysics, the theory that both wave and particle theory account for the behavior of matter and energy under different conditions  3. mathematical symmetry of objects or operations a mathematical symmetry in which some objects or operations can be interchanged without invalidating a relationship, e.g. the interchange of points and lines in a plane in projective geometry
The above is the article mentioned on 11/23/18 broadcast “Beyond the Myth of Polarity” (from the archives)

As a prelude to Part 1 of a 2 part series starting tomorrow, Friday, September 28, 2018 at 2 p.m. on Human Spirit Radio – “Tapping Zero Point Energy ~ Unleashing the Future” – I share an article I wrote several years ago on Zero Point energy. Enjoy.

The Healing Power Of Zero Point Energy


Daniel Schmachtenberger speaking on the science of evolution and emergence. 25 minutes of real clarity on how the Universe evolves and our embedded place within it. Really worth the time!

When I joined News for the Soul Network in March 2018 I was asked to complete these questions. Sharing here, as it was kinda fun – >^..^<


What was your first moment of ‘beyond 3d normal awakening’?

Like most children, I lived in this zone pretty faithfully until I was about 10. I didn’t share my extra-dimensional experiences with adults or family members, but the faeries, nature spirits and unseen friends were great allies of mine. In puberty I began to doubt and relinquish “my inside authority”. Becoming aware of the ways I’ve adopted the conditioning messages of our world, and dropping them is an ongoing practice and path I walk daily to become Free.

Who is your favourite teacher, book and movie?

Mr. Watkins, 6th grade science teacher who introduced me to the microscope and all the living creatures within lake water. He also gave us a week long project of imagining an entirely ‘other’ world – drawing it, describing it and communicating about it as if it were the world we came from. Many others – Mrs. Tyler, who made poetry and literature more relatable by using lyrics from Simon and Garfunkel songs; Jim Howell, the college professor who really ignited my passion for Biology. Book? The Once and Future King by T.H. White about Merlin’s training of King Arthur (Wart) in magic, integrity and leadership. Movie? I still love Camelot with Vanessa Redgrave and Richard Harris.

What’s the strangest experience you’ve ever had?

I have had a few ‘near miss’ experiences where I was in the direct line of certain calamity, then all of a sudden I found myself in a position of complete safety, unharmed. Almost like being moved into a parallel reality by a guardian energy.

What’s one interesting thing we do not know about you yet?

I sang in a chorus in college (Antioch College, Yellow Springs, OH.) We sang a 14th Century mass written by Johannes Ockeghem in cathedrals throughout Europe (Reims/Amien/Chartes/Norte Dam…) which gave me, as a very agnostic 19 year old, my first direct inkling of the realm of Spirit. Our voices, filling those spaces and the way it moved me gently invited me into another, beautiful, expanded possibility. (Here’s a sample of that music:

What do you feel your true life purpose to be?

To be the love that I am. May everything else flow from there.

What’s your favourite animal?

Kitties are some of my best companions.

What’s your favourite consciousness or energy ‘exercise’ that helps you stay connected, grounded and ‘tuned in’ in a good way?

Calling in the directions, the Great Elements of Air (East), Fire (South), Water (West), Earth (North) and Center (Self/Creator) and setting the intent to collaborate, in joy and high magic for the benefit of All. I find this to be super-pleasurable – an expansive and grounding daily practice.

What’s your favourite music / song / musical artist?

Too many to narrow down! I love the song “Defying Gravity” (from the musical Wicked) and also “Seasons of Love” (from the musical Rent) Also “It’s Love that Makes the Woman” by Phoebe Snow Laura Nyro, Dave Matthews, Bonnie Raitt, Buffalo Springfield, Moody Blues, Traffic, Rose Cousins…so many. I also love JAZZ and OPERA.

What’s your favourite food?

Artichoke, if I have to choose.

 What excites your creative juices?

Alignment with Source, setting intent and trusting. Then witnessing the amazing orchestrations.

What’s the one thing you’d like to “shamelessly self promote” here today?

I am dedicated to Life and the positive evolution of our species in harmony with a thriving natural world. I’m committed to social justice beyond polarity. I relate with others deeply and compassionately while remaining clear and in my own sovereign space. I track, energetically, on a lot of levels. Being in alignment with Source is my highest priority. With precision and clarity I can communicate/transmit complex information in a very ‘gettable’ way. I am very gifted in identifying and releasing energies that limit us personally and collectively.

More info on Sarah’s broadcast HumanSpirit Radio, on News for the Soul Network. 4th Friday of Every Month @2-3 p.m. PACIFIC.


Happy coming Winter Solstice to all my northern hemisphere kin. I love this post and it’s imagery by Danielle Prohom Olson – Doe, a Deer, The Spirit of Mother Christmas

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